Backroad Notes: Bug Tried It⦠And He Liked It! š„£š§”
Today was one of those little parenting wins that probably doesnāt seem huge from the outside, but I was SO proud of Bug.
After running some errands and picking up a few things we needed for the festival this weekend, we stopped at The Old Spaghetti Factory for lunch.
And todayās mission was:
Letās see if we can get this child to eat something besides chicken nuggets and fries. š
I ordered Bug some beefy mac and cheese, figuring weād at least give it a shot.
But before his food came, my clam chowder arrived.
Of course, I offered him a taste.
At first?
Absolutely not.
There was some resistance. Some suspicion. The usual toddler negotiations. š
But eventually I managed to convince him to take a tiny taste.
And apparently that tiny taste was enough.
Because suddenlyā¦
MY clam chowder became OUR clam chowder.
Actually, letās be honest.
It pretty much became HIS clam chowder. š¤£
He ate the majority of my bowl!
Thankfully it was really goodāthick, creamy and full of clams and potatoesāso I couldnāt even blame him.
Then his beefy mac and cheese arrived.
Round two.
Again, there was a little resistance at first.
Then he tried it.
Another hit! š
And Mama was sitting there feeling ridiculously proud because my little fry-and-chicken-nugget enthusiast was willingly eating clam chowder and beefy mac and cheese.
Weāve also recently managed to add peanut butter crackers to his list of acceptable foods.
Granted, he has to take the crackers apart before heāll eat themā¦
But hey.
Progress is progress. š
Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are still a work in progress, but weāll get there eventually.
Iām not worried about how fast we get there.
For now, Iām just happy heās trying.
The restaurant itself was beautiful too.
There was an old decommissioned trolley car that had been turned into a seating area, gorgeous Italian-style chandeliers, paintings throughout the restaurant and these big lounge chairs that looked like they belonged to royalty.
And then I discovered the Italian cream soda.
I ordered mine with cherry, and it was DELICIOUS. š
Even better?
It came in a keepsake glass.
So naturallyā¦
I somehow ended up with two. š
Donāt ask questions.
But as pretty as the restaurant wasāand as much as I enjoyed my cream soda and my newly acquired glassesāthe best part of lunch was watching Bug try foods he wasnāt sure about and realizing:
āHey⦠I actually like this.ā
Iām trying to let him experience different foods without turning mealtime into a battle. Some heāll love. Some heāll hate. Some might take five, ten or twenty tries before he decides theyāre worth eating.
And thatās okay.
Today he tried.
Today he discovered a couple of new things he likes.
And today this Mama was really freaking proud of him. š„¹š§”
Although apparently I need to start ordering the kid his own clam chowder.
Mama would like to eat her soup too, Bug. š¤£
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Until the next mile, keep the fire lit and the road calling. š„š£ļø








